What is a phobia?
Many think that fear and phobia are the same thing. The definition of a phobia is an extreme or irrational fear or aversion to something (ref).
I would go further than this. A fear is a dislike of something. You can dislike flying yet still find yourself on a plane in an emergency. With a phobia, nothing will get you onto that plane! Except maybe a tranquilliser. Many will recall Mr T in the A-Team frequently being knocked out with novocaine to get him on that plane.
What can YOU do about YOUR phobias?
We have established that phobias are common, and most with a phobia will acknowledge they are irrational. If they're rational then they aren't a phobia - they are there to save your life.
It is common for benzodiazepines to be prescribed, or beta blockers, to deal with the anxiety arising in a phobia. These don't solve the problem, they delay the resolution.
Also historically psychotherapeutic methods have been used, most include a form of exposure therapy. This is the path many will go down, and it can be very effective. I use some of these methods myself when clients request it. This type of work can typically take 6-10 sessions.
The new approaches include modern brain-based psychotherapies and rapid forms of hypnotherapy. It is not uncommon now for someone's phobia to be gone in a matter of minutes.
In the past I have helped clients that have had issues with spiders, flying, etc, and many months later they are still reporting the massive benefits to their life.
If you have a phobia that is getting in the way of living, book an appointment to see me, now.
The title of this blog post is a phrase I hear all the time.
As a psychologist, hypnosis is a tool I use to deliver my interventions. I don't always use hypnosis, and I do give clients a choice. There is a massive benefit to hypnosis.- it helps the clients to make profound changes, sometimes in as little as 10 minutes.
When I first mention the use of hypnosis to clients they will often say to me 'I don't think I can be hypnotised' or 'well, I went to x and I am not sure I was hypnotised'. There is a perception that hypnosis (a word derived from the greek 'hypnos', meaning 'to sleep') means a deep sleep, or even a coma, where the client has no awareness throughout the process. And maybe in some instances this is almost true (the Esdaile state, also known as a hypnotic coma), yet the majority of hypnotists/hypnotherapists (or whatever they want to call themselves) will not use these levels of depth.
What will I hear in Hypnosis?
During hypnosis it is very common to hear every single word the hypnotherapist/hypnotist utters. It is even more common if it is your first session with them as people tend to have a sense of curiosity. The more you allow yourself to relax into it and get guided along on the experience, the deeper you will go, and potentially have a stronger sense of amnesia.
Hypnotherapists aren't bothered what your conscious mind can and cannot hear though as we're not communicating with that part of you!
What will I feel in Hypnosis?
That is an amazing question, and ultimately whatever your experience, it is the right one for you. Some people do report a sense of heaviness, as though their entire body is made of lead. It can also feel as though the body has vanished and your head is floating around above your shoulders.
Others report a sense of lightness. Sometimes that lightness is suggested, or appears after the problem has been removed or resolved.
Hypnosis isn't relaxotherapy, sometimes you may feel relaxed, sometimes you may not. I can do long relaxing sessions, and it can be a wonderfully indulgent treat, just like a psychological massage. Often the fast work is more therapeutic.
So, What is Hypnosis?
I could give standardised definitions:
The Mayo Clinic defines hypnosis as a 'trance-like state in which you have heightened focus'.
The American Psychological Association state that hypnosis is a powerful and effective technique for dealing with a wide range of issues such as pain, anxieties, and mood. And for dealing with behavioural issues such as smoking.
Both of these are fairly accurate. I always explain to my clients that hypnosis is a state of deep focus and is one that you have experienced in the past. When engrossed in a good book, movie, or box-set on Netflix, you are in an altered state of consciousness where your imagination is extremely powerful. A great book is the best example, where you are so involved with the characters and story, and can envisage the entire story as though it were a film playing out in your mind.
Does the unconscious or subconscious mind exist? Who knows. What I do know is that there is a part of us always listening in an unconscious manner.
That part of you that hears your name mentioned across the room when you're at a party. That part of you that wakes when it hears a baby, or puppy, murmur.
That part of you that continues searching for the name of 'that song' when your conscious mind has given up, then throws it into your conscious awareness hours later and you get that 'ah yes' moment.
It is this part that we communicate with in hypnosis. The part of you that has the power to work away in the background making real changes. I have seen the true power playing out in front of my eyes as I asked the subconscious mind to release any blockages within a client - this resulted in them convulsing as their body released the trapped energies causing negative feelings - these had existed for 30 years!
Look into my EYES.... NOW
Can I be hypnotised?
Everyone can be hypnotised. I have proven that to many in the past that have told me that they cannot be at all. As a hypnotherapist, my job is not actually to hypnotise you. It is to dehypnotise you. Your problematic beliefs, issues, anxieties, etc, are all the result of an event or some faulty programming that's occurred during your life. Similarly with chronic pain - often there is no pain stimulus, just the pain experience. With hypnosis we dehypnotise you from all of this faulty, no longer helpful programming, and you come out feeling absolutely amazing.
I say this with confidence as clients in the past have come in looking forlorn and left my clinic laughing. Feeling lighter, feeling free.
What can hypnosis help with?
Hypnosis in itself is just the tool used to allow the work to be done. I use various methods whilst the client is in hypnosis to help you to make changes.
I will give a brief example of issues that I have dealt with using hypnosis in the past couple of weeks:
Some clients have been burdened with anxieties, traumas, fears, for 30+ years, and found relief in just 20 minutes. Others have been through the state system, coming out with a great understanding of why they feel anxious, yet still burdened by anxiety. 20 minutes into their session with me and that anxiety had dissolved.
Many issues can be dealt with effectively within 1 session, others are layers of issues and require a couple of sessions. Hypnosis speeds up the time it takes to notice real change for many of my clients, helping them to feel lighter, more free, and ready to face the world.
How Can I Experience this?
If you have any anxieties, fears, phobias, or any of the above issues, that are holding you back from living the life you deserve, book an appointment today and start on the journey to change.
Do you want to quit smoking?
Is it costing you too much money?
Do You want freedom from tobacco?
I occasionally, at special request only, work with people who want to become non-smokers. Often the clients have tried many methods, reading books, other hypnotherapists, CDs, nicotine 'replacement', and none have been successful.
For this year's no smoking day I am offering FOUR appointments only. These can be booked directly on my website - book here now: www.rapidchangeclinic.com/book-online
Becoming a non-smoker does not have to take 3 hours!
in January 2016 an article emerged that Adele and Ewan McGregor had visited a hypnotherapist to help them stop smoking. It took them 3 hours sat there listening to him! (article)
For people who are that busy, that's an utter waste of time. The method I use helps you to become a non-smoker in under an hour, often the main work lasts just 15 minutes! No repeat sessions, no wasting time, no waffle. A fast and effective method.
4 places ONLY this no smoking day
For no smoking day I am offering 4 no smoking sessions. As a special I shall be donating 50% of the fee to Les Bourgs Hospice.
Book today and become a non-smoker this year.
I'm a doctor of psychology, born in Guernsey, educated at a tertiary level in Bristol, Bath, and London. Having worked and trained with some of the leading Health Psychologists in the UK, and having a passion about how Health Psychology can truly benefit many people, I now want to spread the word, as well as offer consultations to people wanting to make changes in their lives.